Ever wonder why some people are not afraid to take action, while others live in constant fear? Is it their mindset, their past experiences, or perhaps it's in their genes? The truth is that fear can have any of these causes and many others!
Sometimes, it's your mindset that's holding you back. Other times, you're afraid of change because you've failed in the past. One thing is for sure—you have the power to make your dreams come true and enjoy a fulfilling life.
Not sure where to start? Beware of these six things that are holding you back from taking action to reach success:
Living in the Past
Living in the past keeps you from enjoying the present. You're allowing your previous experiences (good or bad) to drive what you do today.
Let's say you launched a local marketing agency years ago. You were enthusiastic and dreamed big, and yet, you failed. Now you're afraid to start another business because you might have a similar experience.
Perhaps your business failed because it wasn't in high-demand back then. Or maybe your economy was down. No matter the cause, it doesn't mean that you're doomed to fail again. These things happen to everyone and shouldn’t stop you from taking action.
I can relate to this personally. Years ago, my husband and I owned a gourmet popcorn shop and over the course of the 5 years that it was open, we went from making a profit to making significant losses every month. But instead of letting that failure stop me from being in business, I looked upon that as an expensive education, took my learnings and moved forward with the next venture.
One thing is for sure—you have the power to make your dreams come true and enjoy a fulfilling life.
Even the most successful people sometimes struggle with self-doubt. Despite that, they keep the world moving forward. You, on the other hand, feel as though you can't do anything right.
Regardless of your goals, take the steps needed to accomplish them. If you succeed, your self-confidence will flourish. If you fail, you'll learn a valuable lesson and feel more confident the next time you try something new.
Stop waiting for the "right" moment and stop seeking excuses to give up on your dreams. The perfect moment might never come. There will always be drawbacks and pitfalls. The more you procrastinate, the harder it gets to accomplish your goals.
Building a fulfilling life takes time. It's not something that happens from one day to the next. The same happens in business, career, and relationships. Remember, the best things in life are worth waiting for, so stick to your plan. The results will follow.
Perfectionism keeps people focused on failure, leading to a constant state of disappointment. It also contributes to depression and unnecessary stress.
Don't expect your work to be perfect. There will always be room for improvement. However, this shouldn't stop you from getting started. As you progress, you'll learn valuable lessons and do things better.
If you're always comparing yourself to others, stop. Since you cannot see their struggles and mistakes, it's easy to assume these never existed. The people you admire had their fair share of challenges. Focus on what you do best and make the most out of it.
Unitl next time, many blessings and much peace! xo